During the journey from Egypt to Chevron to bury Yaakov, a stop is made at Goren Ha’atad for a seven-day period of mourning and eulogies (B’raishis 50:10). The shortest path from Egypt to Canaan was “via the land of the P’lishtim” (Sh’mos 13:17), going east then north along the coast, while Yaakov had come down to Egypt via B’er Sheva (B’raishis 46:1), going south then west (a similar traveling distance). Yet the Torah tells us (twice, 50:10 and 10:11) that Goren Ha’atad was “on the other side of the Jordan (River),” implying that they took a circuitous route from Egypt to Chevron (as Goren Ha’atad was either on the eastern side of the Jordan, or, if it was in Canaan, the “other side of the Jordan” is mentioned because they crossed the Jordan from east to west to get there; see Torah Sh’laima 50:29). Why did Yosef go so far out of the way to get to Chevron, traveling all the way east before coming back west?
Although it would be nice and tidy to suggest that Yosef took the same route that the Children of Israel would eventually take when they left Egypt (which fits with the notion that Yaakov had his sons carry his coffin in the same formation that the Tribes would travel to the Promised Land, see Rashi on 50:13), it is unlikely Paro would have allowed his army and dignitaries to travel so far out of the way, and be away from Egypt for so much longer, if there wasn’t a practical reason to do so. It was only because of the oath Yosef had taken that Paro let him go at all (see Rashi on 50:6); letting him go for longer than necessary would seem to be out of the question. Besides, if Yosef knew the route that would be taken after the exodus, why did his descendants, the B’nai Efrayim, take a different route when they left 30 years too early?
Rashi explains why it was called Goren Ha’atad; “all the Canaanite kings and the princes of Yishmael came to wage war. Since they saw Yosef’s crown hanging from Yaakov’s coffin, they got up and hung their crowns there as well, surrounding it with crowns just as a threshing area (goren) is surrounded by a fence of thorns (atad).” [A similar explanation is put forth in the Talmud (Soteh 13a), although the Talmud says it was the children of Eisav, Yishmael and Keturah that had come to attack but changed their minds upon seeing Yosef’s crown on Yaakov’s coffin. Numerous Midrashim (i.e. Tanchuma) say it was the Canaanites (who are mentioned explicitly in the text, see 50:11), but only mention their crowns surrounding Yaakov’s coffin without mentioning that they were coming to wage war. B’raishis Rabbah doesn’t mention the crowns, but does say that the Canaanites would have been heavily defeated had they not honored Yaakov (doing so in other ways than placing their crowns on his coffin). I would suggest that Rashi synthesized the Midrashim, with the war being averted and the reason for the name “Goren Ha’atad” expressed the way the Talmud and some Midrashim describe it, and the Canaanites included as opponents the way the two sets of Midrashim have it. Rashi may have left out the children of Keturah because they are sort-of included in “Yishmael,” and left out Eisav because he was apparently an adversary until his death (see Rashi on 27:45), making it unlikely that at Goren Ha’atad he paid homage to Yaakov. The Talmud does have Eisav, or at least his descendants, in both places (placing crowns on Yaakov’s coffin at Goren Ha’atad and protesting Yaakov’s burial in Chevron), so Eisav could have mourned his brother’s death while contesting where he should be buried. Nevertheless Rashi avoids the issue by having Eisav present at only one of them.]
There are two ways to understand what happened with the crowns; either the Canaanites and/or the other nations came to attack the Children of Israel as they attempted to bury their patriarch but backed off once they saw Yosef’s crown on Yaakov’s coffin, realizing that the Egyptian military was protecting the Children of Israel so it would be foolish to attack, or they came to attack Egypt because they thought this large Egyptian entourage was coming to assert Egyptian control over their land, but backed off once they realized it was a large funeral procession not an invading Egyptian army. When the “inhabitants of the Canaanite land” said “it is a great mourning for Egypt” (50:11), were they emphasizing “Egypt,” because Egypt was mourning too, not just the Israelites, or were they emphasizing “mourning” because this large faction, including chariots and horseman (50:9) were there to mourn, not to fight? Did Yosef’s crown protect Yaakov’s coffin, or did Yaakov’s coffin protect Yosef’s crown?
The Talmud discusses the crowns surrounding Yaakov’s coffin to explain why on the trip to Canaan the Egyptian nobles were given precedence (50:7-8) while on the trip back Yosef’s brothers were (50:14); after seeing the honor given to Yaakov by the other nations, the Egyptians realized how special and important he, and by extension his family, were, so treated them with greater respect. (Rashi, on 50:14, quotes this part of the Talmud too.) If the other nations only put their crowns on Yaakov’s coffin because they saw Yosef’s crown there, it would not have caused the Egyptians to have additional respect for the Children of Israel. If, on the other hand, it was Yaakov’s coffin that prevented the nations from attacking the Egyptians, and rather than just back off they put their crowns on his coffin, we can understand why the status of Yaakov’s family had improved. From a practical standpoint as well, it is much more likely that the nations were planning to attack the Egyptian entourage because they thought the Egyptians were attacking rather than because they were accompanying Yaakov’s body, as it would have been difficult for them to ascertain that Yaakov’s coffin was part of the entourage until they were already quite close to it.
This is supported by a Midrashic manuscript quoted by Torah Sh’laima (31), which says that Yosef realized the eulogy had to be made outside the boundaries of Canaan, as otherwise the people of Canaan would think the Egyptians were coming to conquer their land and would launch a pre-emptive attack. Some of the Tosafists explain that Yosef did not continue past Goren Ha’atad because these nations still feared that he would try to conquer their land. This would explain why the seven-day period of mourning started before Yaakov was buried; since Yosef did not accompany his brothers any farther, he started sitting shiva then. Once his mourning started, Yaakov’s other relatives, who had come to meet the entourage (according to B’chor Shor this included the families of Eisav, Yishmael, Keturah and Lavan) joined in the mourning.
The Torah’s description flows very nicely: “And chariots and horsemen went up with him (Yosef), and they were a very large camp” (50:9). This large group, including horses, chariots and Egyptian officials, could easily have been mistaken for an invading army. Whether the chariots and horsemen went to honor Yaakov or as a preventative measure–n case the Canaanites (or Eisav) would try to stop them from burying Yaakov in Chevron–is unclear. Either way, Yosef knew how it could be perceived, and therefore took a circuitous route, to an area where it would be easier to hold a eulogy for those relatives who were not in Canaan, traveling through the wilderness to the other side of the Jordan River. Defending armies came to meet them, but when they saw that it was a funeral procession (“Yosef’s crown was hanging from Yaakov’s coffin”), they joined in the mourning. “And they came to Goren Ha’atad which is on the other side of the Jordan, and held a very large and touching eulogy, and mourned for his father for seven days” (50:10). It wasn’t for “their” father (i.e. all the brothers), but for Yosef’s father, since he was not continuing any farther. Why did the nations change their minds and not attack the large Egyptian contingent? “And the people of the Canaanite land saw the mourning at Goren Ha’atad, and they said ‘this is a large group of Egyptian mourners” (50:11), and not, as they first thought, Egyptian invaders. By taking a circuitous route, Yosef avoided an immediate confrontation with the Canaanites, and allowed Yaakov’s relatives on the eastern side of the Jordan to join in the mourning.